Sunday, June 14, 2020

Unity

    In 4 Nephi we read of a people who achieved a Zion state of living. They cared for each other and loved one another and took care of the poor and needy among them. One verse in this account that always stands out to me is in verse 17: "There were no robbers, nor murderers, neither were there Lamanites, or any manner of -ites; but they were in one, the children of Christ, and heirs to the kingdom of God." The idea that there were no manner of -ites once led someone in a lesson I attended to make the observation that they were "un-ited" or we could say they were united.
   
    Satan does not like it when we are united. He is like one of the predators in the wild who seeks to separate an animal from the herd or group and kill it. Satan understands, if he can separate us, he can destroy us more easily. Conversely, our Heavenly Father desires to see us united. He wants us to be a part of his heavenly home. In the parable of the lost sheep, the shepherd left the 99 and sought after the one who was lost.

    Becoming united can seem daunting especially where there are so many things that can be disagreed upon from race, politics, religious beliefs, interpretation of the word of wisdom, and on and on. The people in 4 Nephi had just seen their Savior, Jesus Christ so it may seem that they had it easy. But I believe they made the conscious decision to be united. Being united does not mean being uniform or robotic in our ways. Elder Renlund has said, "God is not interested in His children just becoming trained and obedient 'pets' who will not chew on His slippers in the celestial living room. No, God wants His children to grow up spiritually and join Him in the family business."

    Sheri Dew wrote a book titled Oh, How We Need Each Other. In this book she addresses the need for women to be unified, but I think some of the thoughts from that book can be expanded to include everyone. In the book, Sister Dew writes: "We need each other's strength and compassion. We need to be able to lean on, learn from, and help each other along the path." I remember hearing a story about horses pulling weight. In researching the topic, I learned that one horse can pull as much as 8,000 pounds! No small task to be sure. However, when 2 horses are yoked together, they can pull up to 24,000 pounds which is about 3x that of which a single horse can do by itself. The moral of this story, to me, is that we are stronger when we work together.

    Ultimately, becoming unified is achieved through the help of Jesus Christ. In Matthew 11:28-30 we read,

    "Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon         you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls. For         my yoke is easy, and my burden is light."

We are all children of a loving Heavenly Father and He has prepared a way for us to return to live with Him, together. Jesus makes that possibility a reality as we trust Him.

Sunday, June 7, 2020

Change

Last night, I watched the movie “Aladdin” with my wife Molly. One thing that stuck out to me in the movie was the Genie’s desire to be freed. Eventually Aladdin is able to set the Genie free. This reminded me of my desire to be free and the desire we all have to become free from sin and sorrow and heart ache and all other afflictions. While we may not have a magic lamp or genie who can grant us wishes, we do have a master who sets us free. That master is our Savior Jesus Christ. He sets us free. I love these words found in Alma 7:11-13:             

“And he shall go forth, suffering pains and afflictions and temptations of every kind; and this that the word might be fulfilled which saith he will take upon him the pains and the sicknesses of his people. And he will take upon him death, that he may loose the bands of death which bind his people; and he will take upon him their infirmities, that his bowels may be filled with mercy, according to their flesh, that he may know according to the flesh, how to succor his people according to their infirmities. Now the Spirit knoweth all things; nevertheless the Son of God suffereth according to the flesh that he might take upon him the sins of his people; that he might blot out their transgressions according to the power of his deliverance; and now behold this is the testimony which is in me.”

What a miracle and blessing it is that Jesus came to earth and prepared a way for me and you to be able to repent and change and overcome natural tendencies in order to return to live with our Heavenly Parents.

                I recall a talk from Elder Robbins who spoke about repentance and forgiveness. In that talk he said with regards to our constant need for repentance: “Our success, then isn’t going from failure to failure, but growing from failure to failure without any loss of enthusiasm.”  I love this idea of growing from mistake or failure to failure. I used to think of repentance as being a bad thing because it implied I had done something wrong; that I had failed. I have a great fear of failure. I do not like to fail or feel that I have disappointed someone. To quote the British track athlete Harold Abrams, “If I can’t win, then I won’t run.” Fortunately, for me and for you, there is a way for us to run and to win, even if we stumble and fall along the way. Harold Abrams’ girlfriend replied to his comment with one of her own, “If you don’t run, you can’t win.”  And so it is in life. We run the race of life and yes, we stumble. Yes we fall down. But we have a loving Father in Heaven who prepared a way through His Son Jesus Christ for us to grow from each misstep and each fall along the way.

                That way is through repentance. Through turning to Jesus and asking for his help. A talk given at BYU in 2011 by Brad Wilcox titled “His Grace is Sufficient” has really been a go to talk for helping me understand how Jesus’ amazing grace works. In the talk, Brad Wilcox talks about one of the ways in which grace works:

“So grace is not a booster engine that kicks in once our fuel supply is exhausted. Rather, it is our constant energy source. It is not the light at the end of the tunnel but the light that moves us through the tunnel. Grace is not achieved somewhere down the road.  It is received right here and right now. It is not a finishing touch; it is the Finishers touch (see Hebrews 12:2).”

                Because of the Savior’s amazing grace, I can repent and be changed from a sinner to a saint. I can become what the Lord wants me to be. “I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneht me.” (Philippians 4:13). I know that Jesus lives and loves me and all of us very much. It is my hope that the next time we stumble or fall, we reach our hand out to His, which is always stretched out to us, and walk with Him hand in hand. I know as we do so, we can and will be changed.

Sunday, May 31, 2020

Wisdom

Today I would like to speak about wisdom. I think this stems from a recent reading of James 1:5 where it states:“If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him.”
What is wisdom exactly? Well, according to the dictionary: “the quality of having experience, knowledge, and good judgment; the quality of being wise.” I think that is very interesting. By this definition, it is possible to have wisdom in many different areas, but not all are good. I like that it includes “good judgment” as part of the definition.
Today while speaking with my mom, she talked about being wise.  This reminded me of Jacob’s exhortation in Jacob 4:12- “O be wise, what can I say more?” I believe that being wise and having wisdom are interrelated. And I believe that exercising wisdom can lead a person to become more wise because experience is an element of gaining wisdom.
Joseph Smith spoke to his mother after his experience in the sacred grove. When asked by his mother what the matter was, he replied, “Never mind, all is well—I am well enough off…I have learned for myself…” (Joseph Smith—History 1: 20). That is a pattern for learning and gaining wisdom. Joseph had a question; he studied it, talked with others about it, and then sought answers to that question. In the course of his search, he came across that verse in James which I have quoted previously, “If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him.” God is the greatest source of wisdom. It therefore makes sense to seek His help in finding the wisdom we lack.
 In Moses 1:39 we read: “For behold, this is my work and my glory—to bring to pass the immortality and eternal life of man.” God wants what is best for us. He wants for us to return to live with Him, but even more than this, is His desire for us to want to live with Him. Elder Renlund said: “Our Heavenly Father’s goal in parenting is not to have His children do what is right; it is to have His children choose to do what is right and ultimately become like Him.” I know that Heavenly Father loves all of us as His children. He gives us the opportunity to be here on the earth and to make decisions. It is our opportunity to learn from those experiences and thereby, gain wisdom and become more wise.
Heavenly Father is helping us every step of the way. It is because of His son Jesus Christ and His atoning sacrifice that we can become more wise. Elder Lynn G. Robbins said: “Our success, then, isn’t going from failure to failure, but growing from failure to failure without any loss of enthusiasm.” I believe that because of Jesus Christ, we can grow from failure to failure and become what the Lord wants us to become. He loves us very much and I know He is pulling with us and helping us as we seek to gain wisdom and become wise.

Sunday, May 24, 2020

Hope


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Today I want to talk about hope. I recently was reading parts of Elder Holland’s talk: “A Perfect Brightness of Hope”. As I began reading it I was reminded of the questions that President Nelson shared during his October 2019 conference: “How would my life be different if my knowledge gained from the Book of Mormon were suddenly taken away” and “ How have the events that followed the First Vision made a difference for me and my loved ones?”
Those are powerful questions and I believe they are reasons to have hope. The Book of Mormon is on the earth. It is the word of God and that provides me hope. The First Vision really happened. This provides hope as I can have the assurance that God does hear my prayers. He lives and so does His son!
Elder Holland goes on to outline and highlight other truths that have been restored since the Restoration of the Gospel of Jesus Christ.  I particularly love his hope in the temple and the work that is done in the temple.
“In 1820, we would have hoped to see fulfilled the eloquent promises of Isaiah, Micah, and other ancient prophets regarding the return of the majestic house of the Lord. We would have thrilled to see the glory of holy temples established again, with the Spirit, the ordinances, the power, and the authority to teach eternal truths, heal personal wounds, and bind families together forever. I would have looked anywhere and everywhere to find someone authorized to say to me and my beloved Patricia that our marriage in such a setting was sealed for time and all eternity, never to hear or have imposed on us the haunting curse “until death do you part.” I know that “in [our] Father’s house are many mansions,” but, speaking personally, if I were to be so fortunate as to inherit one of them, it could be no more to me than a decaying shack if Pat and our children were not with me to share that inheritance. And for our ancestors, some of whom lived and died anciently without even hearing the name of Jesus Christ, we would have hoped for that most just and merciful of biblical concepts to be restored—the practice of the living offering up saving ordinances on behalf of their kindred dead. No practice I can imagine would demonstrate with more splendor a loving God’s concern for every one of His earthly children no matter when they lived nor where they died.”
Isn’t that such a hopeful doctrine?!? Priesthood power has been restored to the earth and because of that, there are saving ordinances available to us!
I still remember the first time going to do baptisms for the dead. It was in the Portland Oregon temple and I was with my Mom, Dad, Grandma and Grandpa Michael and I sure other aunts and uncles were also present. It was a lovely opportunity to be there with my family members. In addition to being there with family, I was able to be baptized and confirmed on behalf of my Great Grandpa Amos Russell Michael. He is the man for whom I have been named. What a blessing to be able to open the door to salvation for my grandpa.
As a result of that experience in the Portland Temple, my wife and I decided to be sealed for all eternity in the Portland Oregon Temple in 2013. What hope can come because of the temple!!
In August of 2019, my sister Ellen was sealed to her husband Vino in the Los Angeles Temple. As this beautiful ordinance was being celebrated, my wife was in the throws of a miscarriage. We had been married for going on 6 years and had yet to have the blessing of children. In spite of the difficulties of going through the pain and suffering of losing an unborn child, I feel hope knowing that the Savior died and is now resurrected.
Elder Holland shared the following quote in his talk titled “An High Priest of Good things to Come”: “Some blessings come soon. Some blessings come late. And some blessings don’t come until Heaven, but for those who embrace the gospel of Jesus Christ, those blessings come.”
Moroni shared in Ether 12:4, “Wherefore, whoso believeth in God might with surety hope for a better world…”. I recall a roommate of mine talking with me and a class about this verse. He posed the question and I pose it now to you, what does your better world look like? I think we all have hopes or things we want to have in our better world. Indeed, Elder Holland shares some of those hopes when he says:
“When we have conquered this—and we will—may we be equally committed to freeing the world from the virus of hunger, freeing neighborhoods and nations from the virus of poverty. May we hope for schools where students are taught—not terrified they will be shot—and for the gift of personal dignity for every child of God, unmarred by any form of racial, ethnic, or religious prejudice. Undergirding all of this is our relentless hope for greater devotion to the two greatest of all commandments: to love God by keeping His counsel and to love our neighbors by showing kindness and compassion, patience and forgiveness. These two divine directives are still—and forever will be—the only real hope we have for giving our children a better world than the one they now know. “
Fortunately for us all, the Lord is aware of our hopes and desires. He knows each of us better than we can know. He wants what is best for us. His timeframe may be different than ours, but as Elder Holland further shared, “Because the Restoration reaffirmed the foundational truth that God does work in this world, we can hope, we should hope, even when facing the most insurmountable odds.”
Heavenly Father loves me and He loves you. His love is a great source of love. I rest assured (some of the time) knowing this truth and that He loves me. That love can be anchor for my hope. And with that hope, I can and you can look forward to the future with faith and a positive outlook as opposed to despair.
Surely it was hope that carried our Savior through Gethsemane and Calvary. I know He loves us and died and rose again from the grave for me and you personally and for the whole world more generally. I have a testimony that He lives and is watching over us. He cares for us and it really is through Him that all our hopes can and will be fulfilled.

Monday, January 28, 2013

Happy New Year!

Its been way too long. I have been posting most of my updates on Facebook and therefore my blog has been somewhat neglected. That being said, it is never too late to start over. I guess that is appropriate because its a new year and well, the resolutions that we often make with a new year are short-lived. In fact, I heard that January 21 is considered the most depressing day of the year because it is the darkest day of the year and also because usually by that time, all the resolutions you have made have been broken. That being said, it is never too late to restart and try again. Yep, its ok to start again. So, I guess I speak for myself and others when I say, lets begin again. Life is Wonderful and it can continue to be so, especially because the Atonement is real and it works. I know that to be true!

Sunday, June 17, 2012

San Angelo, Texas

I have arrived safely to San Angelo and begun my study at Angelo State in pursuit of a Doctorate of Physical Therapy. Is it going to be difficult? Of course. Do I sometimes wonder what I have got myself into? Absolutely. Am I going to make it? YES! I have sometimes been asking myself if this is what I should be doing or if this is what I even want to do. I have been questioning my decision to move 18.5 hours away from Mom and Dad and things that are familiar to me. Even the 11.5 hour flight to Germany felt more comfortable than this sometimes. But then I think about it and how everything has worked out right for me to be here at this time. And I am reminded of the tender mercies of my Heavenly Father and realize that it will work out for the best. It may be lonely sometimes, but it wont be all the time. I really appreciate President Uchtdorf's talk, "You Matter to Him." The town of Big Spring, where he did his pilot training, is about 1.5 hours from San Angelo. I sympathize with his feelings of inadequacy as he lived there. I know that things will work out in the end. Heavenly Father is wonderful and very aware of us and our situations. Elder Bednar has said something to the effect of honor you covenants, keep the commandments, be a good boy and the decisions you make will be spiritually led. I love the Lord and know that because of Him, it is a wonderful life!